Then while we were riding down the river to Manaus, and out of contact with the rest of the world, a border skirmish between Colombia and a couple of it's neighbors was playing itself out. Fellow riverboat passengers had divergent opinions about the wisdom of a couple of gringos going through Venezuela under the protection of Hugo Chavez. The expressions of our friends and families had become less diffuse. On the river, both Landon and I got the sense that the trip was over, and that it was time to go home.







Wednesday, we drove west on I-10 into the rain. At Mobile, Landon headed north to visit family. I drove on west into the storm and got soaked to the bone. The rain let up in Louisiana, but the north wind was worse than Patagonia. The sun came out and it warmed up at the border with Texas. I made it through Houston only slightly scathed by the beginning of rush hour traffic. After six months, the 20,000 mile circle was closed when I pulled into my yard at 10 p.m. It was great to be home. Landon got home on Saturday. Sean will be spending the next month in Brazil before he returns.
It will take a few weeks to get everything cleaned up and things back to normal. It will take longer to figure out what the trip means to me.
Please forgive me a few of quick personal observations:
1. The United States is a nice country to live in, and I'll probably live out the rest of my days here. But it's not Argentina, or Colombia, or Chile. People actually talk with each other in public there; perfect strangers enjoy visiting with each other in places like Bogota, and Santiago, and Rio Mayo. I like that so much. After six months of living in the dynamic public life of Latin America, being on Interstate 10 was disquieting. No lively conversations at filling stations, people didn't even look at each other. No kids in the back seat of a passing car giving the thumbs up along the way. No rolled down windows and impromptu conversations at red lights. I didn't notice it so much before, but, in comparison, the public life of this country feels barren to me now. I wonder how we can make that better. (People on motorcycles in the US wave at each other, though. I really like that, and it seems like a good start.) Maybe it was just me moving west on I-10 at 78 miles per hour, so anxious to get home for Easter. I'm thinking that taking two weeks moving west on US Highway 90 might have provided a better vision of the warmth and vibrancy of my native land. Is it also possible that we as a people are too shy, too cautious, too lazy or too careful with each other in public?
2. Some preliminary advice to anyone considering a journey like ours comes from something Landon said in the first weeks, "When you are getting ready for a trip like this, don't take anything you aren't prepared to lose." I've thought a lot about that remark over the past months. On a journey like this, if you can't deal with losing it, don't take it: your stuff, your motorcycle, or your life. Maybe the best that "adventure" traveling can do is to help us learn how part with things--things we are going to eventually loose anyway. There is a freedom in that, especially when it is bathed in the mysteries of Holy Week. I still have so much to learn on this one.
3. I wish every citizen of our country could engage in lively conversations with our neighbors who live south of the Rio Grande. They know a lot about us, our higher education, our motorcycles and music, our retirement funds, our cities (especially New York and Miami), our entrepreneurial energy and basketball teams. They almost always asked about Hilary, and Barak Obama, and George Bush. I wish everyone could hear the questions about George Bush. When they found out I was an American, so many people wanted to know what I thought about him, and the war in Iraq. They talked about how difficult and expensive it is for them now to get a visa and enter our country. They never openly said so, but I got the impression that they have a lot of questions about the way we are conducting ourselves among the other nations of the world. We need lively conversations with our friends south of the Rio Grande. They have a lot to offer. So do we. And I think they like us.
4. And I am so grateful to have had the chance to travel through Latin America, to see it and to experience the utter hospitality of so many generous people. I look forward to keeping in touch with new friends made along the way. It was so great to see the Southern Cross, the wildlife and native plants, the mountains and streams, to taste the food, drink the wine, hear the music and look at some of the beautiful things our fellow Americans have made over the past 20,000 years. I'm thankful for David, Marcia, Irv, Charlene, and Shawn--dear loved ones who came to visit along the way, and for all my family and friends who have followed our travels and cared so much for us. I thank God for these good gifts. I'm thankful for a good motorcycle and the joy and freedom that two wheels can bring. For men in Latin America (maybe everywhere) having a motorcycle is an unblended celebration of pure masculinity. I'm grateful to be a man, and for the privilege of traveling with two good men like Landon and Sean.
4 comments:
you bring a light,
sir',...and shine like morning...
Thank you for all the interesting posts along the way!
If it's any comfort, I think Americans are very friendly.
See you soon!
What a trip!
As for your observations, I agree that we are too cautious and busy. .. especially along I-10.
Of course, If you had ran into us on I-10, we would have made a big scene, thrown confetti, and welcomed you back to TX. We try not to treat people like anathema on I10. :)
i love you lou
sean
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